Category: Blog

The receiving end

In the beginning, oral sex was what we had. It was our way of connecting, without… Connecting all the way. And back then, it was like my eyes had been opened. i loved it so much, and couldn’t get enough. It was probably very…

Hidden Meanings

To those readers that have children, i am sure you feel me when i say that being intimate with your partner and also being a parent do not mix. Whether your kid is climbing in bed with your every night, or your walls are…

Love, life, & the pursuit of Lars

lately life has been too busy stress has overtaken so many aspects of our relationship and some days i have to make a conscious effort to choose joy, and not overlook it. and even though my bottom isn’t sore even though we are existing…

There is no hierarchy

Recently Daddy and i watched a series on Netflix about a magician. Yes, sounds cheesey. It kind of was. But there was this bit about mothers and how they make their children feel guilty. There was a Jewish mother, and an Italian mother, among…

Squirties

This post was originally written for The SafeworD/s Club. For more information, click the link! Have you ever squirted? Do you aspire to be able to? Here my thoughts about my personal journey with squirting. Before i met Lars, i had never had an…

she thought wrong

and she said she was big. Look at this little girl, Daddy’s little toy. To find out who else is sinning this weekend, click the lips!

SOSS

We have gotten several shout outs on SOSS posts, and wanted to pay it forward! The first blog we want to give a shout out to is Princesse Crowned. If you like poetic, articulately written posts, you will love her. She links music to…

Drops of soap

It’s funny how You go away and i become achy and weak. Self care becoming more important to keep myself moving, up out of bed. It’s interesting, really tired and dropping clumsily knocking the bottles off the shelf in the shower and i’ve spilled…

Cupcake?

It wouldn’t be a party without cake.

a little less conversation, a little more alpha please

This week i have been a big grumpy pants. i have had so much to accomplish; cleaning, baking cakes, getting ready for my mother in law to visit, plus hosting a party for my baby’s first birthday. And to top it all off, Lars…

DDLG/CGL: Re-parenting & Trauma

Today i am writing about something that is really close to my heart. i don’t usually like associating DDLG or CGL (caregiver/little) with psychology, because things can sometimes get weirdly Freudian, but today i will allow myself down this rabbit hole. When i meet…

Tools to Track Service

This post was originally written for The SafeworD/s Club weekly theme of service. Join the fun next week to discover the theme of: Thrills and Spills! When i consider the word servant, honestly a big part of me shrinks away in disgust. i think about the…