Category: D/s

Kissing the frog

Sometimes life feels like a fairy tale. Everything is going your way, you are with the love of your life, nothing could be better. And sometimes you have a wart covered frog in your face, belching at you while it chomps on flies. Such…

Mine

You’re mine – My property My possession My responsibility My sub My dirty girl My toy My wife My best friend My lover My soulmate My little My joy My inspiration Everything you are, mind, body and soul is mine.

If you’re a catfish and you know it, clap your hands!

We wrote this post for The SafeworD/s Club but felt it would be good to share here as well, as it is useful information. As i always say, safety first! If you are interested in learning more about safety online, in scenes, and in general, or…

How to Create, Implement, and Enforce Rules

The following post has been co-written, because we feel that a Dominant and submissive perspective to rules is important. Please let us know if you have any questions! As a side note- we are not experts, and there is no one right way to…

Questions answered: Labels

Are there any labels that might help others to understand you better? i suppose if you are looking to understand me, i should really explain what all these labels mean. Here goes: BDSM= Bondage, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. This is a generalized…

The True Love

i have spent time drowning, not trusting, looking over my shoulder, and yet also peering ahead, wondering when hurt was coming again. Who i have let down, who i can disappoint again, what failures i will stagger through. And then suddenly arrives this burst…

Thoughts on community

Daddy and i began our journey online, and being involved with online communities has always been a big part of our lives. That’s why when we decided to explore BDSM, it felt natural that we would learn online. Daddy and i have made many…

Speaking Without Words

i was wearing Your t-shirt, standing out on the deck twirling the hose around, trying to water our potted plants. my thoughts were wandering, standing on my toes, my bare feet warm on the boards. i noticed You from the corner of my eye,…

A poem for Him

waking in Your arms warmth seeping into my bones as Your arm wraps across my belly and pulls me close and i can nuzzle my nose into Your chest and i can kiss along Your jaw and i can burrow into Your neck sighing…

Satisfying Emotional Needs in D/s

Hello! The following post contains discussion points from the chat hosted at The Safeword/s Club. Join us for our next chat, on Monday, July 16, at 9:30 pm EDT to discuss pervertables! These notes are the opinions of Lars and slars of Married and…

When times get rough: Reset

Needing a reset Resets are not just scheduled meetings, they are necessary moments when one or both of us feels out of control, stressed out, or distant. When babygirl needs a reset my need for a reset is often triggered when the noise in…