Category: Lifestyle

Love, life, & the pursuit of Lars

lately life has been too busy stress has overtaken so many aspects of our relationship and some days i have to make a conscious effort to choose joy, and not overlook it. and even though my bottom isn’t sore even though we are existing…

There is no hierarchy

Recently Daddy and i watched a series on Netflix about a magician. Yes, sounds cheesey. It kind of was. But there was this bit about mothers and how they make their children feel guilty. There was a Jewish mother, and an Italian mother, among…

SOSS

We have gotten several shout outs on SOSS posts, and wanted to pay it forward! The first blog we want to give a shout out to is Princesse Crowned. If you like poetic, articulately written posts, you will love her. She links music to…

Drops of soap

It’s funny how You go away and i become achy and weak. Self care becoming more important to keep myself moving, up out of bed. It’s interesting, really tired and dropping clumsily knocking the bottles off the shelf in the shower and i’ve spilled…

Thighs & Calves

Tonight our 7 year old dutifully brushed her teeth. She got her pajamas on. She climbed into her bed. Tonight she looked me full in the face, with a small frown, and said she wasn’t going to have cake at her sister’s birthday party….

Reblog: PRIDE by Nicole Bradley — Inmate Blogger

What is it about pride that it won’t let someone apologize? Pride is like the little voice with a pitchfork that pokes someone in the ear when they’re about to be humble. Pride grabs you and abuses you into not apologizing to a friend,…

When the hurt rushes in

You have probably noticed that i don’t like to sugarcoat things. i try to be straightforward and honest about the fact that life is not always a great big circus of kinky fun. And while things are fun, and we have a happy life,…

Copper & Fire

Rage Rage at pipes for breaking. Rage at employers for needing. Rage at God for taking. Rage at phone for hiding. Rage at life for life-ing. Rage at pets for running. Rage at sky for raining. Rage at kids for crying. Rage at wife…

Mine

You’re mine – My property My possession My responsibility My sub My dirty girl My toy My wife My best friend My lover My soulmate My little My joy My inspiration Everything you are, mind, body and soul is mine.

Gratitude

is it wrong to want comfort and attention and affection? am i greedy for wishing night after night your fingers were lost with mine? am i silly for pining after you? i want to memorize the angles of your face the curve of your…

What to do when you meet a wild Fox

When you go for a walk in the woods, you might not expect to see many woodland creatures. Maybe a bird, or a butterfly, maybe even a squirrel. So when i was wandering the trails, and a little fox approached, i was shocked! i…

If you’re a catfish and you know it, clap your hands!

We wrote this post for The SafeworD/s Club but felt it would be good to share here as well, as it is useful information. As i always say, safety first! If you are interested in learning more about safety online, in scenes, and in general, or…