Tag: emotional

The things i can’t control

i can’t control that the package delivery man doesn’t ring the bell when he comes to deliver packages. i can’t control the fact that i can’t call a local number to complain, so am faced with calling an out of country customer support number…

When the hurt rushes in

You have probably noticed that i don’t like to sugarcoat things. i try to be straightforward and honest about the fact that life is not always a great big circus of kinky fun. And while things are fun, and we have a happy life,…

Getting Up

In my everyday life, outside of online communities and BDSM, i am a high performing professional. i have taken a break from work to raise my children, but that doesn’t change the fact that i have the brain of an accountant. Over the last…

Satisfying Emotional Needs in D/s

Hello! The following post contains discussion points from the chat hosted at The Safeword/s Club. Join us for our next chat, on Monday, July 16, at 9:30 pm EDT to discuss pervertables! These notes are the opinions of Lars and slars of Married and…